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Rising Above the Negative Noise

5/22/2015

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For us sensitive types that seem to carry the world on our shoulders, or take things to heart, I have often let the loud, clanging noise of this world get to me. I have not always known how to handle negativity except to retreat quickly into my corner of solace. 

"I am so out of here!" I would proclaim to myself...in a whisper. 

Some people thrive on drama and conflict, which undoubtedly causes division, but for me...it honestly makes me want to run the other direction. Some say if you are quiet and do not join in the loud noise that we "quiet types" have no convictions or backbone, but I would like to differ. 
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When conflict comes, it is human nature to lash out and fight back, but I have found that this is not always proactive. Yes it may feel good for the moment, but the lasting effect may cause more damage than good.

For me I have found a good hour of prayer does wonders. I can unleash all my hurts, anguish, and even anger up to the Father, who knows what is going on so much more than I. I attempt to leave all my troubles at His feet. 

The world is full of confrontation on every side. Opinions fly about like loose canons and nothing is sacred anymore. We may not agree with many issues but our right to speech allows for some of the most hurtful and slanderous words to be shared for all to see. I do feel we have the right to write and speak about anything, but somewhere tactfulness and respect has gone out the window.
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We live in a country that is ruled by a Democracy. This means... We the people should be able to make changes by our votes, our letters of concern, and even a petition. I think about all the rioting recently and innocent people were hurt and businesses destroyed. When it came down to it...it took community members taking a stand in a peaceful manner. They honestly took the high road and the message was strong. I believe it was then people listened. 

I watched the movie Selma this past week and was so impressed with the way in which change was made. It was not easy but through the most horrendous of conditions, many showed much resolve as they walked quietly and peaceably forward. Mr. King and his supporters prayed fervently and made a way for all of us to be free, no matter what ethnicity.  

We should not go backwards...We must rise about the negative noise!

I have always believed any one person can be a strong influence without being a negative Nellie. 

Oh yes...that negative, loud person will be heard, but...will it truly bring about the change that is needed? Will it last? Do they have to tear down a person to make a point? If their so called convictions are driving them, then who is convicting their negative behavior? 

Who really is in the drivers seat... if you get my drift!
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How do we rise about bigotry, hatefulness, and negativity? I do feel we can show love and compassion while making changes that we feel so passionate about. 

I am sure you are thinking...well that goes against what I believe!! 

I am not saying we change our convictions or belief system, I am saying we can still differ...But in love. Sometimes our convictions do change, as our hearts are softened. 

Nothing grows on stony ground. 

If the government is failing us then we need to vote or write a letter to our congressman. Don't spread vicious propaganda and hateful things across the airwaves, or make fun of people and demean their character. This does not do any good. We only stir up more division and hate.

I read a recent article concerning a certain government official. Facebook was circulating a certain comment that was made by him. I got curious and googled it. I came to find out that this quote was over ten years old and he was misquoted. 

So...the vicious cycle begins once more. He is now on the chopping block of the media. 

Remember that little song from Vacation Bible School for those of us who remember going.

"Oh be careful little mouth what you say...oh be careful little mouth what you say...for the Father up above is looking down in love, oh be careful little mouth what you say."

We have to live in this world together whether we like it or not. Frankly I am getting a bit tired of retreating to my little corner every time it gets loud. I honestly want to focus on the positives and the pro-active plans to make this world a better place for my children and grandchildren.
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I called to Love,
Above the negative noise,
But my words were muffled.
I shouted its name night and day!
But Love kept silent,
Then one day I whispered Love's name.
It was then the noise stopped,

And my prayers were heard.
Sunnie Day 2015

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5/22/2015 03:00:01 am

Good morning, Kimi ...

I featured a book on flashPress recently, titled Deadly Emotions. It's written by Dr. Don Colbert. He's another with a wonderful perspective in explaining how negative emotions can have not only a psychological effect on us and others around us but is also the culprit behind a hugeeee variety of physical issues.

Prayer and time with God listening and paying attention to Him is my best offense and defense. I haven't mastered "zipping it" yet but each day is a new opportunity to align myself to focus on the good and positive things rather than dwell on the negative things.

I'm a long-shot from being adept at it but I'm thankful I've been convicted to continue making an effort to improve.

Awesome post. Sharing. ☺

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Kim Thompson
5/22/2015 04:14:54 am

Dear Angie
Thank you so much for commenting and sharing. I have never know you to put down anyone...always tactful and respectful.
I wish many times I was more outspoken at times. Maybe we can meet in the middle. :)
God bless my friend
Kimmie

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Susan Sproull
5/24/2015 10:00:44 am

Being a sensitive type myself, I can relate to what your are saying Kim. When it comes to conflict I either avoid or procrastinate. I received a voice mail from an employee for me to call him. I knew why he was calling a and I thought he wants to complain. Then I realized I was assuming and putting off calling him would not help. I called the employee back within the hour and he thanked me and explained his situation.

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Kim Thompson
5/25/2015 07:16:44 am

Thank you Susan for taking time to read and comment my friend. It is true sometimes we avoid conflict but when we face it head on it is not as bad as imagined. I am glad this situation worked out for you.
God bless
Kimmie

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